WELCOME TO YOUR
Reclamation
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Join Me for the Newly Revamped + Revised Reclamation
You’re on the verge of something big:
A long held dream, a meaningful career change, a satisfying relationship, a true commitment to your creativity, a sense of personal balance.
And yet… It continues to be just out of reach.
You didn’t used to have this problem. You did the right things, followed the path, performed the roles, worked your butt off, and got the gold stars.
And then, the path ran out. Adulting took over. Your own wants took a backseat to reality of just keeping up with everything that the world (your kids! your job! your partner! your business!) wants from you.
You've been doing what you need to do to get by. You've got obligations and deadlines and people to care for -- and you get it done. Even in the midst of continued uncertainty + changing realities + the shitstorm of a world rolling back our human rights.
Even with all of that -- a lot of the time it looks like you've got your shit together on the outside. But it doesn't feel that way on the inside.
You feel unmoored + unsure. Burnt out + lacking faith that any changes you make will help. You're caught in patterns of people-pleasing + over-pushing, or unrelenting second-guessing yourself, or the procrastination/perfection cycle, or a paralyzing fear of failure that won't let you take the risks you long to take.
the problem?
You keep looking outside yourself for answers + validation + the "right" next step on the path to a meaningful life.
It works.
Until it doesn't...
You might be 34 or 44 or 54, but at some point the external markers of success lose their power. These last several years have certainly shown us that nothing is certain. All the "chasing your dreams" seems exhausting, not inspiring. And all the big changes you attempt don’t actually change a thing.
And right now a "new normal" seems beyond your reach.
Why? Because without a true shift of your inner world you’re just rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic… Without a radical connection to your inner self you're building skyscrapers, but forgetting the foundation. Without reclaiming your own unique center, you're following the rules of someone else's game. Without a supportive structure + community to safely process inner patterns with, you keep spinning out.
It's time to dive into the inner game.
And yes, it's time to Reclaim Your Wholeness.
Welcome to your
Reclamation
Reclamation will transform the way you think (about yourself + about the world) — so you can transform the way you live.
Reclamation is not another goal-setting program.
It’s a program about strengthening belief in yourself and trust in your own capability, so that you can claim ownership over your life.
Reclamation will transform the way you think (about yourself + about the world) — so you can transform the way you live.
When someone asks you what you want, you won’t hesitate or hedge. You'll advocate for yourself. You’ll know what you want and believe — and state it with confidence. You'll have a strong foundation of personal truth to make decisions, set boundaries and trust your dreams.
Inner Truth + Outer Alignment =
An Unapologetic Life as the youest of yous
Putting yourself and your joy first (in service of the world you want to live in!) is a radical act of sovereignty. This program is your guide.
Reclamation is an online journey to reclaim your stories and your truth in 10 new areas that are vital to our lives as modern humans -- Presence, Sufficiency, Belonging, Body, Pleasure, Creativity, Purpose, Agency, Source and Vision. You'll dive into topics that matter to your experience of your life: partnering + parenting, online/offline living, big dreams, personal power, aging, pleasure + sex, habits, community, play, creativity, money. We foster an environment of non-judgement, support, transparent honesty, and love so that you can explore these important + intimate topics in safety.
You don’t need a checklist of tasks + mindset hacks to live your best life -- you need to know how to deeply listen to yourself, trust what’s true for you, and unapologetically act in alignment with your truth.
WHEN YOU RECLAIM YOUR INNER AUTHORITY, YOU RECLAIM YOUR LIFE.
Is it time to explore your own truth (your opinions + your actions) about the big topics of your life? Time to gain some real clarity about your day-to-day, your capability, your confidence, your joy, your meaning? Time to remember you can trust yourself and your desires?
I used to second guess EVERY little decision. I could talk myself in and out of taking action like a pro. I would beat myself up for making a “wrong” decision.
Now? I’m feeling powerful beyond my wildest dreams.
The life I am living now looks like a 180 from where I started the year. I quit my job, I am back in school, I spend my afternoons with my children, my marriage is stronger then ever.
I have chosen every single piece of this life. I take ownership over every decision.
Heather
Chico, CA
I knew it was time to truly dig deep and commit to my own growth. I have dug around the personal development world for years, taking samples here and there as I went along.
But I knew that I had only scratched the surface.
I knew having someone like Molly by my side to witness and gently nudge me along would be invaluable.
I was right.
Molly truly is a gift in this world and working with her has been an absolute privilege.
Tina
Vancouver, BC
Molly! First off - you + my mom have the SAME birthday! How awesome is that - two of my favorite women on the planet share the same born day. One birthed me into this physical world + the other birthed me into an emotional world of self-discovery -- opening my eyes to how I can authentically express + take care of myself. (I call it Self-Care 2.0, lol)
One of my yearly goals was to "upgrade my inner game" + Reclamation has supported me in accomplishing this.
There are no words to express my gratitude for your guidance.
TUNJA
West Point, MS
No matter what life has thrown at me, I’ve stayed grounded in what I can control + focused on pushing where it’s time to push + resting where it’s not —
Because the invitation in Reclamation is always to bring all of me to the table.
Ellenkate
Traveling the world
Honestly Reclamation has been a saving grace for me this year!
It has been such an amazing gift to have something good to focus on instead of just all the craziness in the world.
Seriously, thank you, Molly!
Candi
Seattle
Reclamation has given me the support + grounding to stay focused on what’s important and to face all the challenges of this year with grace + resiliency.
Before doing Reclamation -- that would have seemed impossible!
Lara
Atlanta
In Reclamation, I am surrounded by a pool of women that show up consistently ready to support and witness one another. It is a sisterhood that fosters love, acceptance + some sister realness. I get to SHOW UP the way I need to at the time. There’s no script or mask worn. It’s me in all my mess, fears and uncertainties.
I, WE, are free to be ourselves while having access to the beloved Molly who shines her guidance + Big Sister Power.
I’ve declared on many occasions that I am whole, I am complete, and I am fulfilled. These affirmations were tucked away for emergency use. They served their purpose, but something was missing.
When doing September's Call, a light bulb came on -- an Ah-Ha moment! I was saying the affirmations hoping they would somehow fix me, but I don't need to be fixed.
I simply need to yield permission to myself to be HERE.
Consuelo
Raliegh
Reclamation has been everything I wanted + everything I didn't know I wanted.
I expected to get to know myself better and that's definitely been happening. I feel more aligned with what's true for me and awakened to how my life fits into the larger picture of my world. Because of Reclamation, I've made friends with myself.
The thing I was not prepared for was the richness of the sisterhood. There's something about being able to share my truth with this group of women and be witnessed and supported in my me-ness that I've never experienced before. We witness each person's unique experience with love and acceptance... something I've longed for in my life for years.
Reclamation and this group has helped me move forward in ways I haven't been able to in the past.
Thank you doesn't even start to convey what this experience has been for me.
Terri
Seattle
Reclamation has given me a structure + intentionality + accountability with my life that I haven’t had or felt in a long time. It has helped me grow leaps + bounds this year.
I’ve been surprised and amazed at what topics have rocked my world to its very foundation and made me consider so much in new ways.
I never dreamed at the start of this year that I would be thick in starting a new business with my tarot work and I didn’t think I would be doing my End of Life doula training for at least another couple of years yet, but between Reclamation and COVID here I am. I am so happy for it all.
I already look forward to another year or two down the road when I’ll absolutely be joining back in for another round—I can’t wait to see what topics will rock me next time.
I am grateful that Molly is here and leading such a sensitive + generous + searching + fierce group of women every year.
Lindsey
Cincinnati
Next Orientation
: Saturday, February 1st
YOU'LL RECLAIM YOUR TRUTH OVER 10 MODULES
Reclamation
doesn’t stop there.
You will:
- Feel anchored in who you are, what you believe + how to effect change
- Know how to make choices based on what is right for you, not what is expected of you
- Build a loving and appreciative relationship with your wise body
- Understand how prioritizing pleasure + ritual + creativity makes life easier
- Accept that imperfections and juxtapositions make you whole, not broken
- Ask for what you want with less fear of conflict or disappointing someone
- Create new standards for your relationships by renegotiating boundaries
- Reconnect with your own feminine wisdom + deep source of inner guidance
And you won’t:
- Let worry about what others think stop you from honoring your true desires
- Be disappointed when others don’t anticipate your needs
- Quiet your opinions out of fear of upsetting someone
- Blindly follow someone's expectations for your life
- Feel disconnected from your own power
I know this sounds like a lot to take on.
You’ve probably tried to make changes like these in the past. You're most likely exhausted by life, just lifeing.
But right now?
You’re in a unique position to reclaim your wholeness because everything we know about "real life" has shifted. There's literally never been a better time to do the internal work of examining your own assumptions, your own desires, your own knowingness. In a world serving us so much uncertainty -- it's the perfect time to remind yourself that YOU have the answers for YOUR life.
You're ready. I'm ready.
Your unapologetic life is waiting...
Now? Now it’s time to get the support you need to see it through.
Reclamation has been my rock this year.
2020 has been filled with more challenges than I have faced in... possibly my entire life, but Molly and all my fellow Reclaimers have been a circle of strength this whole year.
Reclamation helped me build a better marriage, be a better parent, and do my work as a teacher more joyfully and effectively.
But most of all, it has been my guide for finding clarity in my life, showing me what is truly important, and how to make space for creativity and play in my life.
Reclamation has taught me ways to prioritize joy and live a life worth living.
Elena
South Korea
Reclamation in a pandemic has made it easier for me to manage my way through my feelings. There have been many times where I felt supported in deep waters, knowing I wasn’t alone.
Reclamation has been an anchor for me. I get to be all of me, no judgement -- and that helps me get outside of my own damn head to do the work!!
So many smart, amazing women tackling issues + bringing new perspectives has helped challenge my own + pushed me to become more of who I am supposed to be.
Truly, having this space + time to know myself better when the rest of the world is out of control has been so grounding. I feel really empowered -- if I can do this right now, I can do anything!
Shanna
Seattle
Reclamation has been my saving grace in 2020.
It has been my safe space to celebrate, process, grieve, explore, muse, inspire and be inspired.
I have found that it has been especially important to have a space to reflect on my inner landscape and feel supported + connected given all of the turmoil in our world.
This year has thrown so many curveballs at us, but by spending time diving deep into important topics in my own life (expectations! courage!) -- I have been able to find connection to myself and to others no matter where I was.
And lord knows I have been all over the place... 😉
Sarah
Bloomington
Words cannot describe what Reclamation has meant to me. It was the space I'd always hoped for + the push I didn't know I needed.
I had no idea how much the sisterhood and support would be needed as I blazed trails all year long.
Thank you for your spunky badass light, for making spirituality + personal growth not feel cheesy, and for being so raw and open with us all year long.
Leigha
Portland
It sounds dramatic, but honestly I think 2020 would have drowned me without Reclamation.
Instead, it's turned into a transformational year, re-examining almost every aspect of my life + how I interact with others. It's been especially interesting to do the work during a year where it seems like the world in general is being torn apart + rebuilt too.
Tess
Kansas
Reclamation has brought me more into myself than I have ever been in my life.
I'm continuing to deepen making authentic decisions and finding little moments of truth pop up at me that allow me to live MY life.
I will never forget this journey. Reclamation has been a serious life changer for me.
Thank you for bringing me through it, Molly!
Roni
Atlanta
I support women as they reclaim themselves and their deepest desires.
I'm an entrepreneur, mama and adventurer who tells the truth kindly and believes in the power of sisterhood. I founded Stratejoy in 2009 knowing we all needed a place to practice joy in this messy world + practice telling the whole truth to ourselves. And now in 2025? We've never needed these practices more.
In Reclamation, you’re an Explorer, armed with an open mind, a willing heart, and an empty journal.
This isn't a theoretical program! I’m asking you to deep dive into your inner knowing. Practice in your real life. Experiment with tools of the head, heart + body. And finally, declare the Truths that will serve as anchors for you and your authentic life.
I know. It's big.
But you won't be alone.
You'll be pushing your edges with a supportive group of women and a guide dedicated to your awakening. (Yup! That one is me!) I do most of my heavy lifting by writing sweary love letters to your wise inner self, by making off-the-cuff live videos, by teaching you essential "life skills" each month, by offering prompts + experiments to practice in your real life, and by sharing my own raw stories.
I'll provide structure, expansion and help build sisterhood.
Reclaiming your wholeness — a sense of ownership over your opinions, your purpose, your body, your inner guide, your patterns, your time, your money, your self-expression, your contribution, your courage — will be quite the journey.
But it's journey worth taking.
Your entire world is going to thank you.
What's included in Reclamation
?
10 Teaching Calls
1 content call per month from Molly to guide you through each monthly theme in your workbook.
10 Live Circles
1 evening Zoom call each month with Molly for journaling, exploration, movement, Q+A, story-sharing + group connection.
10 IRL Experiments
Pick 1 challenge per month that will push your boundaries through action and focus your heart through reflection.
Private Online Group
Connect with your Reclamation sisters + Team Stratejoy on Heartbeat - our always active online home.
Monthly Bonus Content
Explore further if desired. Think book lists, podcast recommendations + curated playlists!
Reclamation Goodies
Shipped straight to your home before our Orientation session. Surprises from me + your workbook/daily journal/experiment tracker.
Group Coaching Upgrade
Book a Call to learn more about this intimate level of support + coaching with Molly.
Take a PEEK at the new 343 page workbook!
Next Onboarding: Saturday, February 1st
9 am - 12 pm PT | 10 am - 1 pm MT | 11 am - 2 pm CT | 12 pm - 3 pm ET | 5 pm - 8 pm GMT
This Group's Schedule
- Will start with Presence in February
- Continue with Sufficiency in March, Belonging in April, Body in May, Pleasure in June
- Take JULY OFF for play + integration
- Continue with Creativity in August, Purpose in Sept, Agency in Oct, Source in Nov
- End with Vision in December
Why do I need Reclamation?
STRUCTURE
I can't tell you how many times I hear this one... "I already have half of these books -- I should just commit to reading them!" Or "I'm am interested in several of these topics -- but shouldn't I take specific courses from the subject experts themselves?"
If you will do those things -- GO FOR IT.
But in my experience , you won't. Reclamation gives you a specific structure to work through 10 themes by immersing in one each month -- day by day, book by book, conversation by conversation, revelation by revelation. Even though it may not be the sexiest aspect of the program, the structure of Reclamation is one of the things women most appreciate.
It's the one that helps you actually DO THE WORK.
PRACTICE
I think of Reclamation as a "training year" to practice the things you may know in theory (self-love, setting boundaries, advocating for yourself, listening to your intuition, focusing on the next right step, fill-in-the-blank) but don't actually APPLY to your real life.
If you truly love yourself -- how does that shake out in your self-talk in the mirror, the advocating you do for your own pleasure in the bedroom, the raises you negotiate at work? If you truly listen to your intuition -- how do you handle holidays with toxic family members, or daily yearning to find a new job when you're in debt, or attending church when your religious background doesn't jive with your current beliefs?
These are the kind of practical life matters we examine, discuss and PRACTICE together.
EXPANSION
The point of Reclamation is to help you reclaim your Truth on each of the themes we cover. What is important to you about Authenticity? About Ritual? About Purpose?
In order to do this -- I share my own personal Truth, guide you through writing prompts during the teaching calls, introduce you to guest expert opinions via interviews, discuss inspiring books, and invite the honest sharing of stories in our private Facebook group.
Your view of what is "acceptable, allowed, possible, or desired" expands during this exploration. Sometimes radically!
Armed with this new knowledge and the real life challenges you've experimented with -- you have all the input you need to declare your newly resourced Truth.
And it's these Truths that create your personal guide to truly living life on your own terms.
SISTERHOOD
Not everyone chooses to participate in the community aspect of Reclamation, but for those who do -- it consistently ranks one of the most important pieces of the journey. Sometimes in your "real life" you don't have connection to women who lead lives different than your own and are willing to openly discuss their choices. It happens in Reclamation with a vulnerability and beauty that leaves me breathless.
Together we practice non-judgemental witnessing, open support of all experiments (which means we "succeed" + "fail" in equal measure) and honesty, even when it's fucking scary. We celebrate + process together, allow each other to be beginners and experts, and lead with love in ways that are authentic to each of us. We don't gossip, tear each other down, or offer false positivity.
If none of that sounds familiar, it's high time you experience the acceptance + possibility that true sisterhood can bring to your life.
The biggest lesson I’ve learned has been that “I should” and “I can’t” are kinda bullsh*t.
They’re all just choices.
Some hard, some easy.
The things that I thought were impossible a year ago are possible today because of a shift in perspective.
Things like creating time for myself in an impossibly over-busy life by learning that I am as deserving of my own energy as my loved ones + colleagues; establishing loving but firm boundaries that respect my beliefs + needs; and feeling more connected.
Lesley
Vancouver
The one-two punch of Authenticity + Expectations really show you that you don’t have to be who you’ve always been. You don’t have to maintain the status quo.
You can choose who you want to be + how you want to be that way.
These are all things I would not have thought about or pushed myself to do had I not jumped in with faith that the Reclamation process would be worth the time, worth the effort, worth the money, worth overcoming the fear, worth putting myself out there someplace that is a little bit scary.
Dana
San Luis Obispo
I committed to Reclamation because I was coming out of some of the most difficult years I've ever experienced.
I was on the upswing, but still felt like something was missing.
Reclamation was exactly what I needed to feel centered again... Or maybe really for the first time.
When I think back to where I was this time last year, I never would have imagined that I'd have a community of women all over the world who genuinely care about each other and our well being. Shout-out to the original 2017 small group!
Cecily
Saint Louis
Reclamation brings you deeper into who you are. We often use the word "better" but Molly says over + over again you don't need to be fixed, there is nothing to fix...
It wasn’t really until Reclamation that I fully understood what she meant.
Life doesn’t really work in a "point A to B" way, so neither does Reclamation.
And that’s exactly what I loved about it.
Erin
NYC
I started this journey excited and scared -- with an open mind and a broken heart.
Reclamation has been a rollercoaster ride.
Rewarding. Hard. Fun. Fulfilling.
It's like I've been given a sword to cut through the cobwebs or my false believes, and unhealthy patterns.
I’m giving the past a loving, grateful kiss goodbye.
Sonia
Puerto Rico
I got so much more than I had hoped.
Through Reclamation, I gained an understanding of how my upbringing had led me to undervalue myself purely because I am a woman.
As I began to see how I felt that throughout my life, I began to heal and open to new ways of thinking and being in my world.
I feel at home in my own life.
Cheryl
New Brunswick
+ Agreements
- AGREEMENT #1: YOU’RE THE BOSS/GURU/QUEEN
Of course we need to learn from others, but we also need to understand that there’s no one secret + no one way that works for everyone. Every suggestion I give + personal truth I share is a starting place -- you’ve gotta put it through your lens + flesh it out with your circumstances.
- AGREEMENT #2: INDIVIDUAL SYSTEMS ARE THE FOCUS
This program focuses on your individual system + inner truth-telling. That’s not because I’m ignoring the importance of community advocacy work + the necessary outer truth-telling + action that disrupts the fucked up systems of oppression in our world. It's simply that my work is aimed at our individual experience -- woman by woman by woman.
- AGREEMENT #3: YOU WILL TAKE ACTION IN YOUR REAL LIFE
Application in your real life takes the idea of ownership and helps you with the practical process of doing it. Not just thinking or journaling about it, not just intellectually knowing it’s possible, but reclaiming the truths of who you are in your real life through ACTION.
+ What's Included?
- Online Weekend Orientation
- 10 Teaching Calls
- 10 Online Live Circles
- Weekly Coaching Upgrade
- 10 IRL Experiments
- 343 page Workbook
- Curated Booklists + Playlists
- Private Online Community
I always thought that the woman I would become was related to a job I would perform. Because of Reclamation, I now know that it doesn't matter what job I am doing - what matters is how I am doing it. How I am showing up in the world. How I am more myself in my life. This mental shift, is making a huge impact in my life.
The emphasis is on ME and how I show up every day.
On being a woman. Being myself. Where and how I spend my time, energy, money. Making my own choices and setting my own standards. I don't have to live up to any one else's.
My life is my own.
Abbey
Minneapolis
Going into Reclamation the year I launched my business was no coincidence. I knew I had some limiting beliefs that I needed to work through before the launch.
Reclamation was the gift of support and personal growth that I gave myself and I’m so glad I did.
I got above and beyond what I expected from my investment.
And I love that Molly’s right there with you doing her own work. She’s not passing down judgement or telling you what to do, but sharing content + questions for you to take what YOU need, and leave what you don’t.
I ended every month with gems of new awareness.
Alexis
Boulder, CO
I’ve always been a very opinionated person, but I was always afraid to share my opinions in case someone thought I was wrong.
Since starting Reclamation, it’s become way easier to share my opinions and not care what other people think about them.
Up until the last election, I was complacent about politics, and I didn’t see how protesting or voicing my opinion could make a difference. Now I realize that I have to do this -- I have to voice my opinion -- because that’s the only way things are going to change. I need to be aware and get active.
And the type of internal work that I’m doing in Reclamation is helping me with that.
Rachel
NYC
If you're like me, then you've spent your entire life checking off all the boxes. Doing all the right things. Until finally you hit this wall because you realize that even though all the boxes are checked, + even though you have this "enviable" life on paper, + even though you have the life you literally prayed for --
You are not happy.
So you find yourself going through life at half-speed. Constantly bracing for the next thing to go wrong. Never really enjoying any part of your life. You go through life like you're on a rollercoaster with your eyes squeezed shut, holding your breath, waiting for it to all be over.
And then you do Reclamation...
And you learn how to surrender -- to open your eyes, throw your hands up in the air, EXHALE and just enjoy the fucking ride!
Lyndsey
Maryland
I was forced to change or defend my perspectives with each new piece of information we covered. That constant consideration, the idea that each decision or action is a choice, is what created the space for the big shift that happened this year -- healthier than ever, embracing my role as a mother, dream job in my dream city, feeling full.
I emerged with a whole new perspective about what my body, brain and heart need. And what I deserve.
I still feel unease, sure, but mostly I feel grounded and confident in every path forward and importantly, that I have the tools that I will need to weather the evolving seasons of life.
Beyond that though, the powerful realization that everything I could possibly want is within my grasp, if only I have the courage to stand up and ask for it.
Paige
Portland
A year ago, I was an anxious mess. Living in the future, wishing for my life to be different. Striving for things I couldn’t put my finger on. Generally feeling restless, but not knowing why.
Enter Reclamation.
I had worked with coaches before and always finished feeling “meh” about the experience. It always felt like there was a lack of authenticity.
Molly and Reclamation felt different.
Taking the financial plunge was something I had to work through, I’m so happy that even though it was scary, I decided to make the investment in myself.
I gained what my soul was craving: clarity. Clarity about who I am, what I want, what makes me happy + what I value + stand for. I can love better and engage more, all while understanding that this can, and will, evolve.
Megan
Houston
Next Onboarding: Saturday, February 1st
9 am - 12 pm PT | 10 am - 1 pm MT | 11 am - 2 pm CT | 12 pm - 3 pm ET | 5 pm - 8 pm GMT
This Group's Schedule
- Will start with Presence in February
- Continue with Sufficiency in March, Belonging in April, Body in May, Pleasure in June
- Take JULY OFF for play + integration
- Continue with Creativity in August, Purpose in Sept, Agency in Oct, Source in Nov
- End with Vision in December